tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9144522321831436392.post1868875114766919702..comments2020-10-18T05:21:31.091-04:00Comments on The Secret Life of Lurch: The Expected TurnaroundP_L_I_A_Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07410974624398408311noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9144522321831436392.post-26690271717270191392009-03-19T18:21:00.000-04:002009-03-19T18:21:00.000-04:00Thanks for the input - your feedback is very much ...Thanks for the input - your feedback is very much appreciated. But now you are getting me to spill some of the beans - so to speak. LOL<br><br>"My question to you is, should he actually divorce his wife, will you then go out with him" <br><br>If he had been serious and done that right in the beginning like he had said, I would have.<br><br>"Or do you plan to kick him to the curb even if he complies, and then laugh at him?"<br><br>I would never in a million years do that to someone. That would be cruel and sick - and that describes Paul, not me.<br><br>..."but why are you toying with him?"<br><br>I NEVER toyed with him - he toyed with me. That is the whole point of the blog.<br><br>"If you're leading him on..."<br>He was leading me on.<br><br><br>"Your anger at this creep is puzzling"<br><br>Wouldn't you be angry at someone who lied to you to try to have an affair with you? <br><br>"Either cut him loose, or tell his wife he's cheating, and get on with your life."<br><br>You can't cut loose what you never had.<br><br>As for getting on with my life, I never stopped! If I were obsessed, I would be blogging everyday.<br><br>Similar to you reading this blog, I only kept talking to him out of morbid curiousity. I realized pretty quickly that he was only playing games with me and had no respect for me - I only wanted to see how far the skank would take it. As for leading him on, everytime he told me he wanted to have a relationship with me, I called him on it. Over and over. HE kept trying to convince me otherwise. HE said he was NOT like every other cheating SOB. He proved me right in the end. I am doing this blog because I am going to write a book about it.<br><br>Based on your input and Amity, it appears that I am doing a poor job of communicating the purpose of this blog. I am not obsessed and I do have a life.P_L_I_A_Jhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07410974624398408311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9144522321831436392.post-44281222172265201312009-03-19T15:10:00.000-04:002009-03-19T15:10:00.000-04:00My question to you is, should he actually divorce ...My question to you is, should he actually divorce his wife, will you then go out with him? <br><br>Or do you plan to kick him to the curb even if he complies, and then laugh at him?<br><br>Yeah, the guy's a skank and a loser and the chances of him getting divorced are remote, but why are you toying with him?<br><br>I've been following this blog out of morbid curiousity, and even though I think this douche needs to be hung out to dry, I'm wondering what you've done or said to make him keep sending you all these texts and e-mails.<br><br>If you're leading him on, however subtly, then you're barely one rung above him on the morality ladder.<br><br>Your anger at this creep is puzzling, considering that you and he have supposedly never hooked up. <br><br>You sound more like a woman scorned, than someone playing a horny man for a fool.<br><br>Either cut him loose, or tell his wife he's cheating, and get on with your life.Mack Truckhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18198809721673445695noreply@blogger.com